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When I told me I was gonna get a tattoo, my father was supportive, wise and a bit of a prick. But his advise changed my life. These 8 sentences will change yours too: "You'll have that tattoo longer than you'll have me." Getting your first tattoo is a significant milestone, much like any "first" in life. Think back to your first professional haircut or manicure—now multiply that feeling by a thousand because a tattoo is permanent. Unlike hair or nails, a tattoo becomes a part of you, etched into your skin forever. This permanence is why it's crucial to approach the decision with careful consideration and thoughtfulness. "Will this tattoo help you become a better version of yourself? Than do it!" This isn't just about an artistic design; it's about something that will become a part of your identity for years to come. If you're contemplating getting a tattoo, here are some key points to ponder. These aren't just tips; they are pieces of wisdom passed down from my father, designed to guide you through this momentous decision. "Don't get ripped off..." Pay the proper price. Not too much, but especially not too little. The biggest rip offs of your life will be the times you pay below price and end up with an awful product or service. With a tattoo it's even worse. Because with most products you can't get a negative outcome - if a phone is crap, it's just crap. But with a tattoo...man, a shitty tattoo brings you down. It lowers your self esteems and stays with you forever. In case you don't know how much you should pay, you can get a sense of the price here. If you got a shitty tattoo already, consider these tips. "Getting a tattoo is no problem. Getting a shitty design is." The design of your tattoo is paramount. This is not a decision to make lightly or on a whim. Before settling on a design, think deeply about what it represents and how it will make you feel in the years to come A beautiful design can bring joy and satisfaction, while a regrettable one can lead to years of discomfort and potential cover-ups. My father always emphasized the importance of personal significance in a tattoo. Choose something meaningful, something that resonates with your values, beliefs, or experiences. Avoid impulsive choices like the name of a fleeting love or trendy symbols that might not stand the test of time. The process of removing or covering up a tattoo is both costly and painful. It’s better to spend the time now choosing the right design than to deal with regret later. "Go crazy, but do it safely." Safety should be your top priority when getting a tattoo. Different states and cities have varying regulations regarding tattoo artists and shops. Make sure the artist is licensed and the shop complies with local health and safety standards. Look around the shop. It should be immaculately clean, with non-porous surfaces that can be easily sanitized. Ensure that the artist uses new, single-use needles and that the ink is freshly prepared for each client. A tattoo is essentially an open wound, and proper hygiene is crucial to prevent infections and other health complications. My father always said, "If the shop doesn't look sterile, don't stay." If you notice anything amiss, trust your instincts and find a better place. Your health is not worth the risk. "Do it sober and with courage. Not drunk and stupid." Getting a tattoo is both exciting and nerve-wracking. It’s important to be physically and mentally prepared. Get a good night’s sleep before your appointment and maintain a healthy diet. Being well-rested and well-nourished will help your body cope with the stress and potential pain of the tattooing process. Remember to stay hydrated and bring snacks to maintain your blood sugar levels. Low blood sugar can lead to dizziness or fainting, which is the last thing you want while getting tattooed. "Who do you want seeing it? And who do you don't?" Equally important as the design is the placement of the tattoo. Where you choose to place it on your body will affect not only how it looks but also how it feels and ages over time. Consider areas that might stretch or sag as you age, and think about how visible you want the tattoo to be in your everyday life and professional settings. My father always reminded me, "A tattoo lasts longer than most marriages." It's a commitment to a part of your body and yourself. Choose a location that complements the design and holds significance for you. Rose Tattoo on the Neck, by Monique DesRoches "Tattoos last longer than marriages. Make sure you love it." On average, they'll outlast your most significant life events. Keeping in mind the tips above will help ensure that you get a tattoo you’ll be proud of for years to come. This isn't just about getting ink on your skin; it's about making a thoughtful, informed decision that reflects who you are and who you want to be. So take your time, think it through, and when you're ready, embrace the experience with confidence and care. And if you need help making a proper decision regarding your tattoos, make sure you talk to experts who can help you plan and execute the right way.